Crying is the only way a baby can tell you that he needs you, it’s his only way of communication. Whether it’s a change of diaper, is tired, hungry, too hot or too cold, needs to be burped, or wants to be held, he’ll make sure to let you know. However, it’s important to know the difference between a crying baby and a fussy baby. Fussing happens when you’ve tried everything and nothing seems to calm him down. It also happens when baby is uncomfortable. Many things can cause fussing such as colic, teething, a diaper rash, an ear infection, or other pain. Try to determine the cause. If you’ve ruled out pain and the crying continues, you may want to try some of the following suggestions.
Rock with baby
Babies love rocking movements. This is why car rides and walks in the stroller put babies down easily. If rocking alone won’t help, try rocking baby with one of those rubber pacifiers for babies. Between the pacifier and rocking motion, it should soothe your baby back to sleep. Is the baby still crying? Add some pats or rubs to their back. The more you make subtle movements with the baby close to your chest or in your arms, he’ll start to calm down as long as you’re calm and your movements are reflective of it no matter how overwhelmed you may get.
Use a swing
If you have a swing or a rocker try placing baby in the swing on a smooth setting. If your baby is crying because of reflux, there are special baby swings for reflux. A lot of these rockers have a vibrating option which some babies also love. Some parents seem to think their babies aren’t fans of these types of rockers. However, it may be the setting. If you start on low and notice that it doesn’t seem to be calming your baby down, try a higher setting. Don’t try to place your baby in the swing only when he’s crying. Try to place him in the rocker at least a couple of times in a day when they’re comfortable to get them familiar with it.
Give them a bath
Another guilty pleasure that babies seem to love is bath time, once they’re used to it. Studies have found that bath time is crucial to your baby’s emotional development. Giving your baby a warm soothing bath will help them relax. Once baby comes out of the bath, their bodies start to cool off which gives them that sleepy feeling. Try dimming the lights in the bathroom for them and play soothing music in the background. Lullabies or even your favorite spa music so that the both of you can relax as it plays.
If it seems like you’ve tried everything it may be time to call in some reinforcements. Whether it’s your spouse, a parent, or a trusted friend, allow them to take the baby for an hour or so to give you a little break. In that hour you can try taking a bath yourself, watching one of your favorite shows, reading a book, or going for a walk to get some fresh air. As parents, we all need a break at times and you shouldn’t feel guilty if you get to this point.
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